But why black women?




According to numerous research studies, including the Institute for Women's Policy Research, Black Women in America:

  • Are among the MOST likely to experience violence from their romantic partners of any group of women
  • Experience significantly higher rates of mental abuse than other groups of women
  • Experience higher rates of sexual violence of any group of women 
  • Are almost 3 times more likely to be killed by a man, almost always at the hands of a male that they know personally


And frankly, this page exists because of YOU:

  • The white women who listen to their black women friends vividly describe being abused but you ignore this to look us in the eye and tell us how strong we are.

  • The family members who listen to us talk about how we were verbally abused and discourage us from leaving because he's such a "good black man" who helps financially.

  • The mutual friends that tell us that he could never be abusive because he is such an upstanding religious man and how you could never imagine him yelling or demeaning us in public.

...and all the others that are comfortable with black women being killed nearly every 6 hours, yet uncomfortable when solutions are created to address it.

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  1. Arthur L GriffithDecember 20, 2021 at 1:44 AM

    I'm glad you have put this group together. I didn't know my Brothers treated my Sisters in such a manner at such wide scale. I love my Sisters and I wish you all the best. And yes, please keep it Black, "they" always want access to our own after they've denied ours access or changed the narrative from Black to be inclusive of them. I love what you are doing. I will be looking for a donation link or page to help support the movement.

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    1. SAMADecember 20, 2021 at 9:51 AM

      Thank you so much for your support Arthur! We are still building but we do expect to have a method of donation set up soon!

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